VanillaCreme
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TheRealCallie said:People gives hugs just to give a hug, expecting nothing in return. People talk to others expecting nothing in return.
I expect a cake from you. Or one of those chocolate avocado tarts.
TheRealCallie said:People gives hugs just to give a hug, expecting nothing in return. People talk to others expecting nothing in return.
Menorahman said:If you are good looking, women will want you. If you aren't, they won't. That's really all there is to it, so if you haven't been successful with women, odds are you never will unless you lower your standards by a lot.
Some things aren't meant to be, and if you actually think about it rationally you will realize that this is a blessing in disguise.
Forsaken-Knight said:Menorahman said:If you are good looking, women will want you. If you aren't, they won't. That's really all there is to it, so if you haven't been successful with women, odds are you never will unless you lower your standards by a lot.
Some things aren't meant to be, and if you actually think about it rationally you will realize that this is a blessing in disguise.
This is not quite true. Looks are important but not everything. Thats why you see guys that look like apes with good looking ladies. You can improve you looks only so far. Realize what you can change..and change it if you think you need to. Attitude is MUCH more important. self confidence is much more important than looks.
Forsaken-Knight said:Menorahman said:If you are good looking, women will want you. If you aren't, they won't. That's really all there is to it, so if you haven't been successful with women, odds are you never will unless you lower your standards by a lot.
Some things aren't meant to be, and if you actually think about it rationally you will realize that this is a blessing in disguise.
This is not quite true. Looks are important but not everything. Thats why you see guys that look like apes with good looking ladies. You can improve you looks only so far. Realize what you can change..and change it if you think you need to. Attitude is MUCH more important. self confidence is much more important than looks.
bd1974 said:Menorahman is correct. It's all about attractiveness. If you are ugly, it doesn't matter how much confidence you have. Sometimes people get this wrong because attractive people ARE confident. So some women will lie and say it's the confidence that drew them in because it makes them look shallow otherwise. But make no mistake, women are very shallow.
AmytheTemperamental said:I can't imagine being attracted to someone who tells me how I feel.
That quote is goldenkamya said:"Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed."
bd1974 said:Why can't women just accept men for who they are?
Paraiyar said:bd1974 said:Why can't women just accept men for who they are?
A lot of physically unattractive women probably ask themselves the same question about men.
Paraiyar said:This probably won't change anyone's mind but I'll say it anyway. I've always struggled with girls and felt shy around them. At some point during my trip overseas I decided I'd act confident around them and I really felt a change in their attitude towards me. I think if I could build that level of confidence up then life would be better.
This actually happened to my best friend. He used to be shy and never had much happen with girls until he joined the army. It made him really confident and now he does superwell with them. So it does make a huge difference in my opinion.
Paraiyar said:Also bd1974, if it helps, I've started doing strength training over the last 4-5 months and I've found that it is starting to boost my confidence, not just due to the change in my appearance but because of the physiological affecta, i.e endorphines being pumped. Maybe this is what you need?
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