Is Therapy Worth It For Being Ugly?

[TheRealCallie]

It's really not OK.
But it's not very nice to call people the B word OR the W word.
That was really my only point.

But sometimes, I have to say, men get called the B word for lodging legitimate complaints.
There are such things as legitimate complaints.
Not everything is "whining".

Everyone has the right to have a b fest every now and then. I clearly don't see it as that much of a big deal as you two do. Either that or you have a different definition or I have the wrong word.

 

[user 191138]

It's really not OK.
But it's not very nice to call people the B word OR the W word.
That was really my only point.

But sometimes, I have to say, men get called the B word for lodging legitimate complaints.
There are such things as legitimate complaints.
Not everything is "whining".

We can have a difference in preference but if you like wearing the pants just say so.

 

[user 191138]

Everyone has the right to have a b fest every now and then. I clearly don't see it as that much of a big deal as you two do. Either that or you have a different definition or I have the wrong word.

A b fit doesn’t look good on men. They’re not boys.

 

[TheRealCallie]

A b fit doesn’t look good on men. They’re not boys.

Judgment doesn't look good on you (or anyone else). You aren't God. Sorry, couldn't resist that one.
People are people, we all have our moments of unflattering reactions. You can call it whatever you want, but everyone does it, regardless of gender or anything else.

 

[user 191138]

Judgment doesn't look good on you (or anyone else). You aren't God. Sorry, couldn't resist that one.
People are people, we all have our moments of unflattering reactions. You can call it whatever you want, but everyone does it, regardless of gender or anything else.

So you’re mad I have my own preferences? Like I said, if you like to be the boss then do it and lmk how it works out for you

 

[TheRealCallie]

So you’re mad I have my own preferences? Like I said, if you like to be the boss then do it and lmk how it works out for you

Don't recall saying I was mad....
Just saying double standards work both ways. Human beings have human emotions and reactions, how is it fair to relegate those emotions to a specific gender? BOTH genders like ***. BOTH genders throw fits.

 

[user 191138]

Don't recall saying I was mad....
Just saying double standards work both ways. Human beings have human emotions and reactions, how is it fair to relegate those emotions to a specific gender? BOTH genders like ***. BOTH genders throw fits.

Ok Callie, have a great day

 

[reynard_muldrake]

What’s not a good look is a man acting like a *****

Mocking men for expressing emotions *really* isn't a good look...

 

[user 191138]

Mocking men for expressing emotions *really* isn't a good look...

It’s not mocking, it defining roles and if you can’t get with it then enjoy b hood too

 

[reynard_muldrake]

It’s not mocking, it defining roles and if you can’t get with it then enjoy b hood too

lol it's been proven that restrictive gender roles hurt *everyone*, but that's too complex a concept for you...

 

[user 191138]

lol it's been proven that restrictive gender roles hurt *everyone*, but that's too complex a concept for you...

Oh yeah? So that’s the consensus? Cuz I haven’t met anyone in their 30s that’s making it through marriage

 

[user 191138]

lol it's been proven that restrictive gender roles hurt *everyone*, but that's too complex a concept for you...

You must know Callie, maybe you can meet and exchange roles

 

[reynard_muldrake]

Oh yeah? So that’s the consensus? Cuz I haven’t met anyone in their 30s that’s making it through marriage

It's the consensus among sensible, educated people. ^__^
Feel free to look it up on your own time.

 

[user 191138]

It's the consensus among sensible, educated people. ^__^
Feel free to look it up on your own time.

You def sound like you’ve got a phd in opinions, and you know what’s said about those…

 

[TheRealCallie]

You def sound like you’ve got a phd in opinions, and you know what’s said about those…

Um, no offense, but you seem to be full of opinions too. Goose/gander. Pot/Kettle. Still not mad, btw.

 

[user 191138]

Um, no offense, but you seem to be full of opinions too. Goose/gander. Pot/Kettle. Still not mad, btw.

When did I claim I wasn’t expressing my opinion, because if you read the above statements; I made it really clear; unlike yourself trying to make yours the right one.

 

[TheRealCallie]

When did I claim I wasn’t expressing my opinion, because if you read the above statements; I made it really clear; unlike yourself trying to make yours the right one.

Actually, there IS evidence showing that gender stereotypes/roles are harmful, so that's not exactly an opinion when there's science to back it up, now is there? Like he said, feel free to look it up.

 

[user 191138]

Actually, there IS evidence showing that gender stereotypes/roles are harmful, so that's not exactly an opinion when there's science to back it up, now is there? Like he said, feel free to look it up.

and I invite you to look up the importance of family building, culture, and tradition.

 

[user 191138]

Actually, there IS evidence showing that gender stereotypes/roles are harmful, so that's not exactly an opinion when there's science to back it up, now is there? Like he said, feel free to look it up.

I’m done replying to you since you’ve already been dismissed above and then tried to use a second account to further your argument. You def need to see someone. Bye again Callie…

 

[reynard_muldrake]

and I invite you to look up the importance of family building, culture, and tradition.

All three of those things can be accomplished without adhering to strict gender roles.

I’m done replying to you since you’ve already been dismissed above and then tried to use a second account to further your argument

I missed this. Do you think I'm Callie posting under another name? If so...
1.) I can assure you that's not the case, and that the two of us have had quite a few disagreements in this forum.
2.) It's odd that you can't accept two people have challenged what you said.