Questions for the Women

[M_also_lonely]

And why do you sometimes behave like Sheldon Cooper? Who doesn't understand sarcasm??

 

[VanillaCreme]

And why do you sometimes behave like Sheldon Cooper? Who doesn't understand sarcasm??

I don't know who Sheldon Cooper is. And perhaps you don't catch sarcasm either.

 

[M_also_lonely]

I love the "Add to ignore list" feature...

 

[Serenia]

I have a question too. How does your facebook shows you messages only for handsome guys? And it goes "My facebook is not working" for others? How come do you not care to reply when a guy like me cares to send you a hi and reply instantly when a handsome guy says hi.

Why aren't you the only person not using any social media, when all the social media is full of women, too ?
Is there a filter you use to hide notifications from guys like me? How?
And why? Am I so cruel? Is there something written on my face "Deserves to be alone" ?

Why don't you get your phone repaired when you say, "Sorry, I cant give you my number, my phone isn't working? Maybe I will give you when I get a new phone." Did you know that phone can be changed without changing number?


I know about multitasking, but how do you manage to study at home and go to a restaurant with another guy at the same time (where I wanted you to come with me)?????

I want to learn this multitasking trick too. It would be much helpful to my studies.

Why does a handsome guy donating to poor considered kind hearted when he posts his photos with kids at orphanage and the non handsome one is called a "show off", even when he didn't even tell about it to anyone, and gave the idea to join the handsome one with him to go for some charity work?

Reading what she has said, she is trying to let you down gently and hope you will get the hint. She may just not be into you. It might not be to do with looks, it could be the connection, she feels better connected to the other guy.

Maybe she should have been more straight with you, I wouldn't dwell on it, it will only make you upset. Focus on something else to keep the mind healthy.

 

[VanillaCreme]

I wouldn't take these questions seriously. Apparently, it was a sarcastic joke.

 

[Serenia]

^ Lol ok

 

[M_also_lonely]

I have a question too. How does your facebook shows you messages only for handsome guys? And it goes "My facebook is not working" for others? How come do you not care to reply when a guy like me cares to send you a hi and reply instantly when a handsome guy says hi.

Why aren't you the only person not using any social media, when all the social media is full of women, too ?
Is there a filter you use to hide notifications from guys like me? How?
And why? Am I so cruel? Is there something written on my face "Deserves to be alone" ?

Why don't you get your phone repaired when you say, "Sorry, I cant give you my number, my phone isn't working? Maybe I will give you when I get a new phone." Did you know that phone can be changed without changing number?


I know about multitasking, but how do you manage to study at home and go to a restaurant with another guy at the same time (where I wanted you to come with me)?????

I want to learn this multitasking trick too. It would be much helpful to my studies.

Why does a handsome guy donating to poor considered kind hearted when he posts his photos with kids at orphanage and the non handsome one is called a "show off", even when he didn't even tell about it to anyone, and gave the idea to join the handsome one with him to go for some charity work?

Reading what she has said, she is trying to let you down gently and hope you will get the hint. She may just not be into you. It might not be to do with looks, it could be the connection, she feels better connected to the other guy.

Maybe she should have been more straight with you, I wouldn't dwell on it, it will only make you upset. Focus on something else to keep the mind healthy.

If it isn't about looks, why have they said, "Look at you, you look like a kid and an old man at the same time, how can you even think of dating?"

It isn't the problem if they prefer a guy with good looks, but it really feels unfair when she posts, "All men are the same" photos after getting cheated my the handsome man who she was so crazy about.
How can she decide that I am the same as him even without listening to me?

How can I even build a connection when they don't even reply to Hi, in spite of being old classmates? To the girl who doesn't even know my hostel roommate and comments on his facebook of how handsome, without even knowing him other than he is my roommate? And during class she agrees to meet only if I introduce her to him? And as they share their contact through me, she recalls of some urgent work when I remind her of meeting? And we end up being at the same restaurant with her being with my roommate? And next day sends me not to message her as she is changing her number, and talks to the guy daily with the same old number?


Its ok if this happens once or twice. But everytime? In some or the other way?

 

[Serenia]

I can see this is a dead end...she just isn't into you, she sees something in him and not you. That is her prerogative,
if you keep on at her after she has tried to let you down, it MAY come across as creepy.

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Oh and the handsome thing. I know a woman who could be a supermodel, and she looks for something interesting in a man. The guy she is currently dating is a very overweight man, with an average car and job, but he is such a nice ma . I have seen handsome men with fancy toys and amazing jobs throw themselves at her, and she just isn't interested if their is no spark between them.

 

[Solivagant]

I have a question too. How does your facebook shows you messages only for handsome guys? And it goes "My facebook is not working" for others? How come do you not care to reply when a guy like me cares to send you a hi and reply instantly when a handsome guy says hi.

Why aren't you the only person not using any social media, when all the social media is full of women, too ?
Is there a filter you use to hide notifications from guys like me? How?
And why? Am I so cruel? Is there something written on my face "Deserves to be alone" ?

Why don't you get your phone repaired when you say, "Sorry, I cant give you my number, my phone isn't working? Maybe I will give you when I get a new phone." Did you know that phone can be changed without changing number?


I know about multitasking, but how do you manage to study at home and go to a restaurant with another guy at the same time (where I wanted you to come with me)?????

I want to learn this multitasking trick too. It would be much helpful to my studies.

Why does a handsome guy donating to poor considered kind hearted when he posts his photos with kids at orphanage and the non handsome one is called a "show off", even when he didn't even tell about it to anyone, and gave the idea to join the handsome one with him to go for some charity work?

Who are you talking to? =/

 

[Veruca]

M_also_lonely, I think you're wasting too much of your precious time and energy over someone who clearly isnt worth it. If someone can be so blatantly insulting about your physical appearance, then one should ignore that person completely.

Also, just to shed light on why women may ignore you on social media.

A lot of girls get hit on by guys with hidden agendas. Many of these guys can seem very decent and nice at first but once you start being friendly, you realize that they have ulterior motives. So I think a lot of girls are wary of guys in general online.

A girl may also have decided based on your profile that your interests dont match. And theres nothing wrong with this. It doesnt affect your self worth...you just have different interests.

One of the things that can turn a woman off is seing lots of woeful self pitying status updates. If you keep mentioning how lonely you are or how much you need someone, women may think you're clingy or desperate and get turned off. This applies to both men and women actually...confidence and emotional independence is something many people look for these days. So one must be careful how one portrays oneself.

Another possibility is that she's already interested in someone else and isnt interested in making male friends. There are many men out there who seem to be okay with friendship at first but once the girl tells them that shes into another guy, they can turn nasty and spiteful. To avoid all the drama, its easier to just seem cold and unresponsive.

When someone does ignore you though, best to just pat yourself on the back for trying and moving on. If you take every rejection personally, you'll become bitter and really friendless.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I don't know who Sheldon Cooper is. And perhaps you don't catch sarcasm either.

He is a handsome guy who should be messaging you, duh

 

[TheRealCallie]

I don't know who Sheldon Cooper is. And perhaps you don't catch sarcasm either.

He is a handsome guy who should be messaging you, duh

I, of course, only have hot guys on my facebook. Why waste time with ugly men? I do not, however, have Sheldon Cooper...whoever that is.

 

[9006]

I have a question too. How does your facebook shows you messages only for handsome guys? And it goes "My facebook is not working" for others? How come do you not care to reply when a guy like me cares to send you a hi and reply instantly when a handsome guy says hi.

Why aren't you the only person not using any social media, when all the social media is full of women, too ?
Is there a filter you use to hide notifications from guys like me? How?
And why? Am I so cruel? Is there something written on my face "Deserves to be alone" ?

Why don't you get your phone repaired when you say, "Sorry, I cant give you my number, my phone isn't working? Maybe I will give you when I get a new phone." Did you know that phone can be changed without changing number?


I know about multitasking, but how do you manage to study at home and go to a restaurant with another guy at the same time (where I wanted you to come with me)?????

I want to learn this multitasking trick too. It would be much helpful to my studies.

Why does a handsome guy donating to poor considered kind hearted when he posts his photos with kids at orphanage and the non handsome one is called a "show off", even when he didn't even tell about it to anyone, and gave the idea to join the handsome one with him to go for some charity work?

This is an undeserved generalisation based on bad experiences. You do not have to know these people, if you recognise these people are the way you think then you don't have to talk to them, or keep them added on your Facebook for that matter. I'm assuming that you're just letting off steam here, I hope you don't always think this about women, because it will just eat you up inside.

And why do you sometimes behave like Sheldon Cooper? Who doesn't understand sarcasm??

Actually, not everyone gets (or likes) sarcasm, and it's even harder to 'get' over some sort of text based communication, like Facebook, for example.

Sheldon Cooper is just a character in a comedy series. I know you're referring to his emotionless personality, but in that case you have to understand that people generally don't open up or connect with everyone. Also, just because people don't flood sentences with emoticons doesn't mean they're robots, context isn't as easy in text format.

If I'm honest from what you say it seems like these people are stepping back from your interactions, this tells me a few things; either that you attempt to chat to many different people at once (Comes across as desperate - unfortunate thought of society) or you attempt to chat to many women (Comes across as 'creepy'). If I'm wrong then I apologise.

 

[BeyondShy]

I, of course, only have hot guys on my facebook. Why waste time with ugly men? I do not, however, have Sheldon Cooper...whoever that is.

That's why I never bothered to join Facebook. This Sheldon Cooper guy has all of you to himself. Why bother?

 

[user 108508]

I don't know who Sheldon Cooper is. And perhaps you don't catch sarcasm either.

He is a handsome guy who should be messaging you, duh

Bazinga!

 

[ladyforsaken]

Question For the Women:

What do you think of men who collect toys? It's not going to change my mind either way, but I was just curious to see if it always has a negative connotation, or if it can be at least considered neutral in most women's eyes. Personally, I enjoy collecting toys from Star Wars, Transformers, LEGO, miscellaneous creatures, and vehicles such as cars and aircraft.

I think it's perfectly fine, everyone has their own specific interests. I could live with someone like this if he's neat and tidy with his collections... if he's a cluttered person.. it might get to me a little bit.

Would the answers you've all given change at all if said man occasionally played with the items in his collection?

No, as long as he isn't being ridiculous with the playing. Though I don't know how this could be ridiculous cos I've never witnessed an adult play with toys and think "that's ridiculous".

I bought my own coloring book - actually designed for adults called "Enchanted Forest" because apparently coloring books for adults is a thing now

I was given Secret Garden as a birthday gift after I expressed to my friend how cool colouring is. It's pretty cool.

M_also_lonely, I think you're wasting too much of your precious time and energy over someone who clearly isnt worth it. If someone can be so blatantly insulting about your physical appearance, then one should ignore that person completely.

Also, just to shed light on why women may ignore you on social media.

A lot of girls get hit on by guys with hidden agendas. Many of these guys can seem very decent and nice at first but once you start being friendly, you realize that they have ulterior motives. So I think a lot of girls are wary of guys in general online.

A girl may also have decided based on your profile that your interests dont match. And theres nothing wrong with this. It doesnt affect your self worth...you just have different interests.

One of the things that can turn a woman off is seing lots of woeful self pitying status updates. If you keep mentioning how lonely you are or how much you need someone, women may think you're clingy or desperate and get turned off. This applies to both men and women actually...confidence and emotional independence is something many people look for these days. So one must be careful how one portrays oneself.

Another possibility is that she's already interested in someone else and isnt interested in making male friends. There are many men out there who seem to be okay with friendship at first but once the girl tells them that shes into another guy, they can turn nasty and spiteful. To avoid all the drama, its easier to just seem cold and unresponsive.

When someone does ignore you though, best to just pat yourself on the back for trying and moving on. If you take every rejection personally, you'll become bitter and really friendless.

+1

Bazinga!

Rofl!

 

[Xpendable]

Would you split the bills forever?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Would you split the bills forever?

I would do it for the long haul, yeah.

 

[SofiasMami]

Would you split the bills forever?

No way. If you're in a forever relationship, sometimes things are 50/50 but more often its something different like 35/65 or in a different situation, 90/10, or in another situation 0/100. My experience, though, is that keeping a strict accounting of things including who pays how much leads to misery.

-Teresa

 

[Xpendable]

No way. If you're in a forever relationship, sometimes things are 50/50 but more often its something different like 35/65 or in a different situation, 90/10, or in another situation 0/100. My experience, though, is that keeping a strict accounting of things including who pays how much leads to misery.

That sounds miserable too.