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Callie
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fortasse said:I'm a bit in a rush, b/c I'm about to leave to go eat out, so excuse my post if it makes no sense.
You seem to be purposefully misunderstanding Jales just so you can take offense. You have just admitted yourself that you know lifting heavy objects can be a cause of miscarriage. As such, it was pointless of you to contradict Jales' statement if you knew it to be true. Also, the point of Jales' post was not to tell you what can cause miscarriage, and I assume you are not idiot, so I assume you knew that was not the point of her post. If my assumptions are correct, then the next logical step in this sequence would have been for you to figure out why Jales mentioned the fact that heavy lifting can cause miscarriages. The point was to show that women are inherently weaker than men.
The point was not to say pregnant women should not lift heavy objects.
The point was not to say women are weak and helpless creatures.
The point was not to cause offense.
The fact that you seem to be misunderstanding her point in order to bear some sort of offense that was never intended and never even present in her post makes one wonder if perhaps you simply have a vendetta against women who might have old-fashioned ideals about feminine strength(or lack thereof).
I'm not misunderstanding anything. And btw, the point I was trying to make is that ANYTHING AND/OR NOTHING CAN CAUSE A MISCARRIAGE!!! Yes, even lifting a ******* glass. The whole thing about lifting honeysuckle while you are pregnant is that if you lift wrong, you could dislodge the placenta from the uterine wall. This could happen all by itself to. There is no telling exactly WHY a m/c happens, there is just speculation and a "educated guess."
And I don't get offended quite that easily, takes a hell of a lot more than that to offend me.
And why exactly are you speaking FOR her? Is she you? No? didn't think so, so you can't possibly know exactly what she meant.