ardour
Well known loser
jaguarundi said:Maybe other people will take heed of even 1% of all this and change their lives for the better.
You can't change others, can't control them, make them treat you decently. I'm tired of always being the one expected to carry conversations, while being regarded as unfriendly when I stop after it dawns how one sided it is. Some of the same women who ended up regarding me as cold and distant *never* initiated conversation or showed any interest in my life. Or they avoided me in really obvious, obnoxious ways then got offended when I ceased to care. And this was just being friendly type interaction, nothing more. It never occurred to them that they might have been part of the problem.