Being hung up on love is a lot like being hung up on God.
Basically Everyone That Just Read My Above Sentence:
To put it into a gaming analogy, it's the Mr. House situation of Fallout: New Vegas, or in film, the Wizard of Oz.
These are things that as a human you will have to find the answers for for yourself.
Some people don't want to know what's behind the curtain, and some people
have to know what's behind it for themselves to have some clarity.
One man's clarity is another man's nightmares.
One man's God is another man's Satan.
This is just how humans are, is the thing.
The sanctity of one man is but the hedonistic revelry of another man.
And more often times than not the opportunist who comfortably exists in the between inevitably gets hung up on the fence in the between due to the sedentary stagnation thereof.
Humans leverage fear and power over other humans when they themselves are triggered by their own fears.
Some people don't want to know what's on the top of the mountain, that scares them. So they stay away from it. Other people make the pilgrimage their life's work. S.S.D.D., my peoples.
This is something that is fundamentally a problem with both men and women.
So don't stagnate, but don't get cocky, either.
If you're 6 miles ahead of the animal that is hunting you, you're ahead enough to stop full speed movement, but you're not so far ahead that you can stop movement all together. And that boys and girls, is Life 101. Ya gotta keep moving. You don't gotta keep running, but you gotta keep moving forward.
Unless of course the animal that is hunting you is something the size of frikkin Kong or Godzilla, okay then yeah, you might need to adjust for scale-to-size ratio.